Anonymous asked: hiOk so here is my problem I am a 21female virgin&single like to think i am the nicest person you can meet People have taken advantage of how nice iam that i've let go of the friends i used to have when i was in hs therefore idont have a social life now I am in college people only talk 2me because we are in the same class that is allNever had a REAL bf i think i am depressed ihate being alone icry at night I feel as if iwill never be good enoughMust ihave sex in order to keep a guy interested
Hi there, I’m sure you are a lovely girl, and I’m sorry to hear people have taken advantage of you in the past, it does tend to happen if you are one of those people who is nice to everyone - but don’t let that stop you from being who you are and nice to everyone. I would suggest asking people you talk to in class if they want to grab a coffee and you can get to know them. Making new friends at college can be daunting, but people aren’t as scary as you’d think and everyone is pretty easy to talk to. In regards to keeping a guy interested, the answer is a straight up no. If you feel pressured to do that then get away from that guy as fast as you can, because if he makes you feel that way then please stay away from him. Being a virgin at 21 really isn’t a bad thing at all. I’ve never had anyone who stayed a virgin until they’re married say they wish they had sex before they got married, but I’ve heard plenty of people who had sex before they got married regret it. Yeah everyone has a right to their own opinion on that, but I just wanted to throw that out there. I hope this helps!